Are dating sites a waste of time? The Student Slagroom

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What’s best way to talk to people on those types of sites?

BTW I am never rude to anyone or send stupid crude messages like some idiots do.

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  • 03-03-2013 17:00

I don’t have any luck at all on dating sites and wondering why? I’m also wondering do any other guys and women have the same lack of luck I have on them?

What’s best way to talk to people on those types of sites?

BTW I am never rude to anyone or send stupid crude messages like some idiots do.

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  • 03-03-2013 17:12

Only thing, I think paid dating sites are a loterijlot better, the free ones attract people who just want to have joy or just waterput themselves up there for a laugh or something to do.

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  • 03-03-2013 17:43

Cheers for that.

I am not shallow however. I am not bothered what women look like, spil long spil they are not fat or old.

I think it maybe to do with my profiles. There not amazing. But I don’t know what to write te them or what to write to people.

I am not the most amazing looking stud. I am fairly brief, and balding.So maybe that’s part of the reason.But if it is then it’s a bit bimbo. Many youthful guys are balding and many are brief.

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  • 03-03-2013 Eighteen:00

Converts dating ter to something even more competitive and less rewarding than a job vraaggesprek

The free ones attract people who just want to have joy or just waterput themselves up there for a laugh or something to do

I think if you are having bad luck, there’s either something wrong with your description and you’re being to fussy with too high standards

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Sorry but that’s just not the case (certainly with the free ones). I know it’s crass to talk about people ter terms of /Ten scores but for the sake of argument: most of the chicks online act like they’re several points out of Ten higher than they actually are purely because of all the attention/rente they get. Ergo, it’s unlikely to be the case that boy’s standards are too high vanaf sae, albeit possibly too high for the world of online dating!

I think ladies care more about personality on dating sites, where I reckon guys care more about the photos (it makes biological sense).

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And I left behind to add you’ve got 90% of the fellows going for 10% of the most attractive women and vice versa.

If you’re media looking and, ter particular, not tall then leave behind it. You won’t get a look te.

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  • 03-03-2013 Legal:24

But who are you to say that? I think that is an utter geyser of rubbish. What are you basing that on? Private practice? Maybe you are the one aiming too high?

I think damsels care more about personality on dating sites, where I reckon guys care more about the photos (it makes biological sense).

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  • 03-03-2013 Legitimate:32

I’ve got a good job (more than &pound,40k a year, studying part time for work related course), house, nice car, good and interesting hobbies and a good circle of friends. I am friendly, certain, slim, quick to laugh and well liked.

But online all the women see if my promedio appearance and I am brief (Five’6″ to Five’7″). NOTHING. No replies to my emails, no dates, NOTHING.

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  • 03-03-2013 Nineteen:11

If you could be picky because you’re getting tons of messages, why wouldn’t you? Just a quick look around the internet will voorstelling how wrong you are. Check the POF forums.

On a dating webpagina, the very first thing you see is the photo yes, but that’s just the commencing point, you then read the profile. And that is a hell of a loterijlot more significant for ladies than you think. Now I’m not talking the elephant man, but I am right, within boundaries. If you are quiebro a bit below media, then just have patience, make sure your profile is up to scrape and message below promedio women.

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I’ve got a good job (more than &pound,40k a year, studying part time for work related course), house, nice car, good and interesting hobbies and a good circle of friends. I am friendly, certain, slim, quick to laugh and well liked.

But online all the women see if my promedio appearance and I am brief (Five’6″ to Five’7″). NOTHING. No replies to my emails, no dates, NOTHING.

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I know a few women on POF who are above promedio ter terms of looks and they don’t get that many messages, and the majority of the messages they do receive are from douches with photos of themselves touching their six packs lovingly and boasting their twice-daily visits to the gym.

On a dating webpagina, the very first thing you see is the photo yes, but that’s just the beginning point, you then read the profile. And that is a hell of a lotsbestemming more significant for ladies than you think. Now I’m not talking the elephant man, but I am right, within thresholds. If you are finta a bit below media, then just have patience, make sure your profile is up to scrape and message below promedio ladies.

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