There’s no compelling reason not to embark dating again
So you just commenced dating, or you’re about to postbode a profile for the 2nd — or umpteenth — time. You toevluchthaven’t yet met your soul mate yet, but you still think dating is joy. Sometimes, that is. At other times the venture seems so mind-boggling you want to drape up your dating pumps for good.
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To date or not to date?
I went through all that — for decades, te fact, a period during which I met dudes I liked and fellows I didn’t. A few might be keepers, I thought, others (many others!) were clearly just plain wrong for mij. Along the way, I embarked compiling the pros and cons of dating. I hope you’ll have joy reading my yeas and nays below — and that you’ll conclude, spil I eventually did, there’s no compelling reason not to begin dating again.
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You can attempt out behavior you can’t get away with at work, te the grocery store or draping out with friends.
So can your date.
Dating lets you wear clothes a tad spiffier than those sweat pants you do the laundry te.
You achieve something concrete by staying huis to do the laundry. And your clothes stay cleaner when you’re not out spilling cheap table wine on them.
You can make your married friends jealous.
Inciting that jealousy may require some creative lounging about your dates.
You will have a mitt to hold on walks and during the scary parts of movies.
Clammy mitts! And what if your date is neither a walker, a moviegoer strafgevangenis a hand-holder? That 2nd script is fine, most fresh movies aren’t worth observing, even with the discount. Spil for screenplays 1 and Three, tho’, I would worry: Walking and holding arms are my idea of heaven.
You have someone fresh to invite to family gatherings.
Your relatives have someone fresh to criticize.