What Can You Do When You Find Out Your Ex Gf is Dating Someone. And It’s Not YOU?
Oh, it hurts, It hurts like you cannot imagine. Just breathing is a chore right now. It feels like your gut is going around a arch at 150 miles vanaf hour. You just found out that the worst thing imaginable has happened. Your ex gf is dating someone else. This is what you feared the most after you broke up with hier and now that you have to overeenkomst with it. it’s even stiffer than you imagined. You picture some other man, some dude with bad intentions is about to win hier overheen and you are going to be just a memory to hier. Is this the end? What can you do when your ex gf is dating someone else?
Here’s What You Need to Do if She is Observing Someone Else
If your ex gf is watching someone else, you have to be very careful about how you are going to treatment the situation. Spil tempting spil it might be to drive a wedge te inbetween hier and the fresh beau, that is the last thing that you want to do. You could come off looking like a accomplish wank, the kleuter of stud she despises if you do that.
Here’s what you need to do:
1) Become okay with the fact that she is with someone else.
Right now, it very likely is a shock to you that she is dating. And you are not. That accounts for a loterijlot of the feelings that are coursing via your system right now. Not only that, you also very likely had some pretty high hopes about being able to find a way to get hier back, and this situation makes it seem like that will not toebijten. That’s something else that you have to process. Let it process. Digest the information that she is eyeing someone else and then. become okay with it. You don’t have to like it, just become OKAY with it.
Two) Do what she is doing and REBOUND.
You know, truthfully all she is very likely doing right now is the classic rebound relationship. Why not do the same thing yourself? You are just going to feel worse if it seems like she is out having joy and you are sitting at huis listening to yet another sad love song on the radiodifusión. Get out, meet some women. do whatever you can to keep you from just sitting te the house and thinking about how much it gargles that she is with someone else.
Three) Be supportive, but not a fan boy of hier fresh relationship.
You don’t want to be a cheerleader for the fresh dude. On the other forearm, it only bodes well for you if you can be supportive of hier fresh relationship. Say something like: Hey, that’s cool you are observing someone. Leave it at that. Just let hier know that you are not going to do the entire creepy ex bf thing.
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